1 00:00:02,133 --> 00:00:03,466 Hi there. My name is Bree, 2 00:00:03,466 --> 00:00:10,532 and I am here to talk about my final capstone and present it to you. 3 00:00:10,533 --> 00:00:14,199 So, a little bit about me: I am a multi-disciplinary studies major 4 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,166 with an emphasis in leadership and conflict management. 5 00:00:17,166 --> 00:00:19,766 I do have a background in early childhood education. 6 00:00:19,766 --> 00:00:25,666 I'm originally from Cleveland. I studied at Cleveland State University 7 00:00:25,666 --> 00:00:28,666 for three and a half years, studying early childhood education, 8 00:00:28,666 --> 00:00:30,799 before I decided to move to Idaho 9 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:34,400 and finish my degree in multidisciplinary studies. 10 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,600 A little after college, the plan right now is to work 11 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:41,566 in some sort of social services setting. I want to work with the public. 12 00:00:41,566 --> 00:00:45,299 I just haven't decided quite the direction I want to go. 13 00:00:45,300 --> 00:00:48,066 But I think my capstone has opened my eyes 14 00:00:48,066 --> 00:00:52,066 to more of the direction that I want to take. 15 00:00:52,066 --> 00:00:53,499 So, my problem. 16 00:00:53,500 --> 00:00:58,800 The problem that I wrote at the beginning of these 14 weeks, were: 17 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,866 how can we better support men, women, and children 18 00:01:01,866 --> 00:01:04,366 that have fallen victim to domestic abuse? 19 00:01:04,366 --> 00:01:08,732 And how to stop the cycles of abuse from continuing to occur? 20 00:01:08,733 --> 00:01:13,433 And I did write an either/or statement. I wrote: 21 00:01:13,433 --> 00:01:19,833 “Either we can donate time to community centers, like Faces of Hope in Boise, 22 00:01:19,833 --> 00:01:22,366 “to work towards protecting women and children 23 00:01:22,366 --> 00:01:25,632 “that have been sexually assaulted, or we can research more 24 00:01:25,633 --> 00:01:29,299 “about why these crimes and/or acts of violence are committed 25 00:01:29,300 --> 00:01:32,066 by men, and sometimes women, in the first place.” 26 00:01:32,066 --> 00:01:34,432 So, a little bit of my research. 27 00:01:34,433 --> 00:01:38,133 85% of abusers are men, and abuse normally takes place 28 00:01:38,133 --> 00:01:42,499 in long-term and committed relationships or families. 29 00:01:42,500 --> 00:01:46,266 15 million children a year will experience abuse in some form, 30 00:01:46,266 --> 00:01:49,832 and one-third of women will experience abuse in their lifetime. 31 00:01:49,833 --> 00:01:54,933 Children that experience abuse are more likely to be abusers later in life. 32 00:01:54,933 --> 00:01:59,066 And then, of course, the stakeholders in my project are the victims, 33 00:01:59,066 --> 00:02:04,032 the children, the abusers themselves, my professors that are watching right now, 34 00:02:04,033 --> 00:02:08,466 the community, and then myself. 35 00:02:08,466 --> 00:02:12,832 The approach that I took based off of my question, my either/or statement, 36 00:02:12,833 --> 00:02:16,699 and my beginning research was the service learning approach. 37 00:02:16,700 --> 00:02:20,166 I really thought it would be beneficial to go into an organization 38 00:02:20,166 --> 00:02:25,232 that was really doing the work and that I wanted to experience firsthand. 39 00:02:25,233 --> 00:02:27,599 So I went to Faces of Hope in Boise, 40 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,200 and I met with the program director, Rebecca. 41 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,633 I also conducted an interview with a domestic abuse survivor 42 00:02:33,633 --> 00:02:38,433 to see her point of view on what happened in the relationship, 43 00:02:38,433 --> 00:02:41,299 and also what she needed when she got out. 44 00:02:41,300 --> 00:02:45,066 And then finally, I researched the problem throughout these last 14 weeks 45 00:02:45,066 --> 00:02:47,499 to try and find supporting information, 46 00:02:47,500 --> 00:02:54,900 from what I was getting in the real world versus what research had to say. 47 00:02:54,900 --> 00:03:00,633 So my results, they're pretty straightforward, 48 00:03:00,633 --> 00:03:04,099 but they also took a couple twists and turns along the way. 49 00:03:04,100 --> 00:03:09,100 As a whole, we need better resources in place for victims. 50 00:03:09,100 --> 00:03:12,200 This means, first, public housing. 51 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,266 This was a huge eye-opener. 52 00:03:15,266 --> 00:03:18,932 When I went to Faces of Hope and I asked Rebecca 53 00:03:18,933 --> 00:03:22,866 what the number one resources that women and men need 54 00:03:22,866 --> 00:03:26,466 after they flee a situation, and without even missing a beat, 55 00:03:26,466 --> 00:03:28,499 she said, “Housing.” 56 00:03:28,500 --> 00:03:30,700 And I thought to myself, “Why?” 57 00:03:30,700 --> 00:03:34,333 But as I looked more into it, if we think about it, 58 00:03:34,333 --> 00:03:39,899 the the prices of homes in the Valley are skyrocketing. 59 00:03:39,900 --> 00:03:46,900 And if a woman is leaving her situation with nothing but the clothes 60 00:03:46,900 --> 00:03:49,333 that are on her back, how do we expect her 61 00:03:49,333 --> 00:03:53,233 to move in and pay rent that starts at $1,200 a month? 62 00:03:53,233 --> 00:03:57,866 So, that is first what we need to start implementing, 63 00:03:57,866 --> 00:04:03,099 is some sort of public housing that these people can stay at 64 00:04:03,100 --> 00:04:08,366 for a limited amount of time, so that they're not stuck on the streets. 65 00:04:08,366 --> 00:04:13,232 Because homelessness is a huge issue, and it's growing daily. 66 00:04:13,233 --> 00:04:17,766 Also, the communities need to give back to the organizations. 67 00:04:17,766 --> 00:04:23,332 They can use food, toiletries, clothing, money, donations, time. 68 00:04:23,333 --> 00:04:27,366 They can really use a lot of these resources 69 00:04:27,366 --> 00:04:30,732 that us as the community can provide, 70 00:04:30,733 --> 00:04:33,233 and they're just not receiving enough of that right now. 71 00:04:33,233 --> 00:04:35,533 And there are only so many of them, 72 00:04:35,533 --> 00:04:39,566 and only so many resources that they have to give to these victims, 73 00:04:39,566 --> 00:04:45,466 that it just doesn't leave a lot of room for the gap. 74 00:04:45,466 --> 00:04:49,266 Also, learning the signs of abuse is super important. 75 00:04:49,266 --> 00:04:52,132 It doesn't always just show up in a scrape or a bump. 76 00:04:52,133 --> 00:04:54,833 It can be the person that's very angry, 77 00:04:54,833 --> 00:04:59,066 the person that's struggling with mental health issues, 78 00:04:59,066 --> 00:05:01,666 or someone that's just really detached. 79 00:05:01,666 --> 00:05:07,332 And we need to break the stigma of women staying in these relationships. 80 00:05:07,333 --> 00:05:13,033 The stay for financial reasons, trauma responses, 81 00:05:13,033 --> 00:05:16,966 just abuse in general holds a bigger threat 82 00:05:16,966 --> 00:05:20,966 on a woman and a man than we give them credit for. 83 00:05:20,966 --> 00:05:24,332 Also, we need to work on our school systems, 84 00:05:24,333 --> 00:05:30,633 and providing mental health awareness to those that are struggling. 85 00:05:30,633 --> 00:05:35,866 We know from research that children that are abused early in life are, later, 86 00:05:35,866 --> 00:05:38,532 more likely going to be abusers. 87 00:05:38,533 --> 00:05:42,466 And this is because we're not providing them with the services that they need, 88 00:05:42,466 --> 00:05:44,999 when we know that they're going through this abuse. 89 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:50,900 So, really targeting that in the moment, when a child is still a child, 90 00:05:50,900 --> 00:05:53,300 before it's too late and it's out of our hands, 91 00:05:53,300 --> 00:05:56,966 and then we wonder why these cycles continue to occur. 92 00:05:56,966 --> 00:05:59,132 And finally, it's just awareness. 93 00:05:59,133 --> 00:06:04,266 And that's what I hope you gain from this, is just awareness of the issue. 94 00:06:04,266 --> 00:06:05,866 And then, it's not just one-sided. 95 00:06:05,866 --> 00:06:09,566 It's not just about the victim. It's not just about the abusers. 96 00:06:09,566 --> 00:06:13,166 It's about a culmination of everyone working together, 97 00:06:13,166 --> 00:06:19,766 and it's a really, really big issue that still could use a ton of help. 98 00:06:19,766 --> 00:06:22,999 My emotional intelligence plays a lot into this. 99 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:26,666 I have always been an empathetic person that cares about the needs of others, 100 00:06:26,666 --> 00:06:29,566 and I really love to make an impact. 101 00:06:29,566 --> 00:06:33,666 So, I think this was such a great project for me, and it was right up my alley. 102 00:06:33,666 --> 00:06:37,032 I was able to fulfill my need of helping others. 103 00:06:37,033 --> 00:06:41,366 But also motivating, hopefully, from this project, 104 00:06:41,366 --> 00:06:47,699 motivating others to want to do more and understand the issues, 105 00:06:47,700 --> 00:06:51,133 and then, hopefully giving back in one way or another. 106 00:06:51,133 --> 00:06:55,766 And we all know someone that is a survivor of abuse in one way or another, 107 00:06:55,766 --> 00:07:00,832 and we just don't want to see these cycles continuing to happen. 108 00:07:00,833 --> 00:07:02,999 My creative thinking throughout this process was 109 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:07,466 that I'd really try not to throw away any possible solution along the way. 110 00:07:07,466 --> 00:07:11,166 I wanted to accept all of the twists and turns that came along, 111 00:07:11,166 --> 00:07:14,166 and a huge one was the housing crisis. 112 00:07:14,166 --> 00:07:17,832 And I really tried to dig into that as much as I could, 113 00:07:17,833 --> 00:07:20,466 and learn as much as I could about the housing crisis 114 00:07:20,466 --> 00:07:25,899 and how it affects these disadvantaged victims from the start. 115 00:07:25,900 --> 00:07:29,033 And I tried to think about it from all perspectives. 116 00:07:29,033 --> 00:07:33,233 Not just the victims’, not just the abusers’, but the organizations’, 117 00:07:33,233 --> 00:07:35,966 and how they are only left with so many resources, 118 00:07:35,966 --> 00:07:38,132 that they just need more help. 119 00:07:38,133 --> 00:07:39,733 And also, the community. 120 00:07:39,733 --> 00:07:46,033 How can the community give back to everyone involved to make this community 121 00:07:46,033 --> 00:07:50,199 and City of Boise a stronger and better place to live? 122 00:07:50,200 --> 00:08:01,433 I tried to, as I said, use a diverse selection of perspectives in my project, 123 00:08:01,433 --> 00:08:06,666 and I also came to the understanding that this is not a black-and-white issue. 124 00:08:06,666 --> 00:08:09,966 It's always going to be changing. It's always going to be fluid. 125 00:08:09,966 --> 00:08:13,899 No abuser looks the same. No victim looks the same. 126 00:08:13,900 --> 00:08:17,000 And so, we have to treat everyone accordingly. 127 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:21,433 And the first step to that is just bringing awareness to this issue as a whole, 128 00:08:21,433 --> 00:08:24,899 and I hope I was able to do that. 129 00:08:24,900 --> 00:08:29,600 Overall, my project talks about the problem itself, 130 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,233 and then ways that I think we need to support 131 00:08:32,233 --> 00:08:35,366 these women and children and men, 132 00:08:35,366 --> 00:08:37,632 and then how to end these cycles of abuse. 133 00:08:37,633 --> 00:08:39,766 And I took the service learning option, 134 00:08:39,766 --> 00:08:45,566 which allowed me to go downtown and work with Faces of Hope in Boise, 135 00:08:45,566 --> 00:08:48,999 and interview one of the abusers. 136 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,066 And then I shared my results, 137 00:08:51,066 --> 00:08:55,599 and how they tie into my own motivations and beliefs. 138 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,433 These are my references. 139 00:08:57,433 --> 00:09:02,933 And then, I did include just one slide of how you can get involved 140 00:09:02,933 --> 00:09:05,333 and donate to any of these organizations 141 00:09:05,333 --> 00:09:07,433 that are all very close to my heart. 142 00:09:07,433 --> 00:09:09,266 Thank you so much for watching.